Tools for Change: An Educator's Resource Site
Healthy Relationships
Author(s): Michelle
Fraser, Jackie Grant, Jennieve Gayle, Cheryl MacNutt, Kohai Plus
Publisher: Hustler
Young Men’s Bible Blass
Type of Resource: Manual
Target Grades: Grade
8 to Grade 12
Canadian Resource? Yes
Resource formally evaluated? No
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evaluation of this resource? (none supplied)
Ministry of Education Expectations
Subject Areas:Language,
The Arts, Health and Physical Education, Career Studies, Individual
and Family Living, English, Learning Strategies
Expectations Met:
GRADE EIGHT
Language: Reading
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Clarify and broaden their own points of view by examining the ideas of others
Language: Oral and Visual Communication
- Express and respond to a range of ideas and opinions concisely, clearly,
and appropriately
- Contribute and work constructively in groups
- Use tone of voice and body language to clarify meaning during conversations
and presentations
- Contribute collaboratively in group situations by asking questions
and building on the ideas of others
- Work with members of their group to establish clear purposes and procedures
for solving problems and completing projects
The Arts: Drama and Dance
- Interpret and communicate ideas and feelings drawn from fictional
accounts, documentaries, and other material from a wide variety of sources
and cultures, selecting and combining complex drama and dance techniques
(e.g., “forum theatre”)
- Critique, orally and in writing, their own and others’ work
in drama and dance, using criteria developed independently and in a group
- Demonstrate understanding of the appropriate use of the voice, gestures,
and the level of language in different dramatic situations
- Organize and carry out a group improvisation
- Produce pieces that deal appropriately with youth problems
- Produce pieces of writing in which they reflect on their experiences
in drama and dance, and in which they show their ability to analyse and
find solutions to problems in real life
Health and Physical Education: Healthy Living
- Identify the physical, emotional, interpersonal, and spiritual aspects
of healthy sexuality (e.g., respect for life, ethical questions in relationships,
contraception)
- Identify local support groups and community organizations (e.g., public
health offices) that provide information or services related to health
and well-being
- Analyse situations that are potentially dangerous to personal safety
(e.g., gang violence) and determine how to seek assistance
- Apply living skills (e.g., decision-making, problem-solving, and refusal
skills) to respond to matters related to sexuality, drug use, and healthy
eating habits
- Identify sources of support (e.g., parents/guardians, doctors) related
to healthy sexuality issues
- Analyse situations (e.g., hitchhiking, gang violence, violence in
relationships) that are potentially dangerous to personal safety
- Identify support services (e.g., the school guidance department, shelters,
Kid’s Help Phone) that assist victims of violence, and explain
how to access them
- Describe causes and symptoms of stress and positive ways (as opposed
to substance use) to relieve stress
- Apply the steps of decision-making process to address age-specific
situations related to personal health and well-being in which substance
use or abuse is one of the factors
Health and Physical Education: Active Participation
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Demonstrate respectful behaviour towards the feelings and ideas of others
Catholic Education Religion and Family Life
Religion:
-
responsible choices, self respect and respect for others
Family Life:
- importance of adolescent relationships, conflict resolution
- meaning of commitment during adolescence, stress management,
- building a loving, just community
Learning Strategies 1: Skills for Success in Secondary School, Grade 9, Open (GLS1O/GLE1O/GLE2O)
Interpersonal Knowledge and Skills - Overall Expectations
- identify and describe the knowledge and skills necessary for
successful interpersonal relations and teamwork;
- assess their interpersonal and teamwork skills and strategies,
and explain how those skills requiring further development affect their
learning;
Career Studies, Grade 10, Open (GLC2O)
Personal Management - Overall Expectations
- demonstrate effective use of interpersonal skills within a
variety of settings.
- Preparation for Transitions and Change - Overall Expectations
- use appropriate decision-making and planning processes to set
goals and develop a career plan;
- analyse changes taking place in their personal lives, their
community, and the economy, and identify strategies to facilitate smooth
transitions during change;
Healthy Active Living Education, Grade 9, Open (PPL1O)
Healthy Living - Overall Expectations
- identify the factors that contribute to positive relationships
with others;
- explain the consequences of sexual decisions on the individual,
family, and community;
- demonstrate personal strategies to deal effectively with the
social influences that contribute to the use and abuse of alcohol, tobacco,
and other drugs (e.g., cannabis);
- identify strategies to minimize potentially dangerous situations
(e.g., violence prevention, injury prevention).
Living Skills - Overall Expectations
- use appropriate decision-making skills to achieve goals related
to personal health;
- explain the effectiveness of various conflict resolution processes
in daily situations;
- use appropriate social skills when working collaboratively
with others.
Healthy Active Living Education, Grade 10, Open (PPL2O)
Healthy Living - Overall Expectations
- explain strategies to promote positive lifestyle choices and
relationships with others;
- demonstrate understanding of the factors affecting human sexuality
as it relates to themselves and others;
Living Skills - Overall Expectations
- identify ways of taking appropriate action in new situations
based on knowledge of positive decisions related to healthy active living;
- demonstrate understanding of conflict resolution, anger management,
and mediation;
- use appropriate social skills and positive attitudes when interacting
with others.
Individual and Family Living, Grade 9 or 10, Open (HIF1O/HIF2O)
Self and Others - Overall Expectations
- describe the characteristics of human growth and development
in adolescence, and explain their influence on the behaviour and needs
of young people;
- analyse strategies to develop and maintain effective relationships;
- Personal and Social Responsibilities - Overall Expectations
- demonstrate communication and conflict-resolution skills in
the context of family and social relationships;
- understand and apply a variety of problem-solving and decision-making
skills, grounded in psychological and sociological studies, to family
and social problems;
- demonstrate practical skills that contribute to the proper
functioning of families and that are transferable to the workplace and
to the community.
Social Challenges - Overall Expectations
- analyse how a changing society affects individuals and families;
- Social Science Skills - Overall Expectations
- demonstrate effective collaborative group skills.
English, Grade 9, Academic (ENG1D)
Language - Overall Expectations
- use listening techniques and oral communication skills to participate
in classroom discussions and more formal activities, such as storytelling,
role playing, and reporting/presenting, for specific purposes and audiences.
English, Grade 10, Academic (ENG2D)
Language - Overall Expectations
- use listening techniques and oral communication skills to participate
in classroom discussions and more formal activities, such as dramatizing,
presenting, and debating, for a variety of purposes and audiences.
Toolkit Evaluation:
(where noted: Consistently (C) Often (O))
Exploring Well-Being Through Relationships
Knowledge
- Personal growth in and through relationships – (C)
- How healthy relationships support a healthy sense of
well-being (C)
- Differentiate between healthy/equal relationships and
relationships that are negative/unequal (C)
- How the nature of relationships are characterized by
growth and change (O)
- Increase awareness of how actions and choices impact
the well being of others (C)
- Increase awareness of how actions/choices of others impact
personal well-being (C)
Skills
- Explore relationships from personal perspectives and
experiences (C)
- Define values of healthy, supportive and caring relationships
(C)
- Develop personal self-awareness and understanding of
well-being (C)
- Develop and practice mutual empathy (O)
- Identify and practice values of mutual respect (C)
- Express personal feelings, thoughts, and experiences
(C)
- Opportunity for classmates to respond empathetically
and respectfully (C)
Exploring Social Relations of Violence, Oppression and Equality
Knowledge
- Knowledge about social structures of inequality, marginalization/exclusion,
negative stereotypes, discrimination and violence (O)
- Develop a gender analysis of social relations (O)
- Recognize and understand oppression on the basis of gender
and other forms of inequality (i.e., race, culture, socioeconomic
status, education, geographic location, ability/disability, etc.)
(C)
- Develop understanding of multiple forms and contexts
of violence (C)
- Recognize and make connections of varied forms of violence
in different contexts (i.e., home, school, community, media etc.)
(O)
Skills
- Explore multiple and different forms of violence/vulnerability
and experiences of exclusion in their lives (C)
- Explore gendered aspects of their social identities,
relationships and experiences (C)
- Explore personal experiences of vulnerability and privilege
by understanding social inequality/oppressions. (O)
- Engage in gaining a sense of social responsibility for
addressing social oppressions/exclusions and for participating
in achieving positive social change (C)
Exploring Identity, Gender, and Diversity
Knowledge
- Knowledge to examine social identities relationships
and experiences within the context of multiple social relationships
and structure of inequality (vulnerability vs. privilege) (O)
- Knowledge about how values and biases are (can be) used
to exclude and cause harm to individuals and groups of individuals
(O)
- Knowledge to build an understanding of “differences” on the basis of gender, race socioeconomic status, ability/disability, sexual orientation, language, culture, education, et. In ways that enable students to move away from thinking in terms of “better than/worse than” (O)
Skills
- Opportunity for students to identify, explore, and name
their own identities, experiences, and values (C)
- Opportunity for students to develop an understanding
and respect for the identities, experiences, and values of their
classmates/peers (C)
- Opportunity to explore differences on the basis of gender,
race, ability/disability, socioeconomic status, culture, religion,
sexual orientation with respect and interest (C)
- Opportunity for students to engage with and learn form
differences and diversity (O)
- Opportunity for students to express, learn from, and
build multiple perspectives on social experiences and diversity
(O)
Developing Connections, Creative Thinking and Participation
Knowledge
- Validation of students’ perspective and knowledge
in understanding violence and healthy relationships (C)
- Strategies for personal and/or social change are offered
to students for the promotion of healthy and equal relationships.
(O)
- Engagement in learning conflict resolution and anti-violence
strategies (C)
- Gain in knowledge about choices and actions that promote
mutual empowerment and respect(O)
- Knowledge is shared with students about where and how
to seek out help and support (O)
Skills
- Opportunities to develop and practice their capacity
for healthy interactions and connections within the context of
the classroom/school (O)
- Opportunities to work collaboratively with peers to discuss
and develop strategies for healthy and equal relationships (C)
- Experience and practice how to resolve conflict positively(C)
- Opportunity for the development of supportive connections
between students and teachers/adults (C)
Pedagogical Evaluation:
Structure and Format:
- Research-based introduction
- Information guide or scope and sequence of lessons (i.e. how
to strategies)
- Ready to use scripted format
- Sequential guide or lessons that are user friendly
- Availability of support to implement the program/resource
Teaching/Learning Strategies:
Direct Instruction: whole class and small group
- Explicit Teaching
- Demonstration
- Explicit teaching and use of thinking skills and strategies
- Explicit teaching and using self-assessment and reflection
Interactive Learning
- Small-group cooperative learning
- Small group discussion/debriefing
- Presentations
- interviewing
- brainstorming
- Conferencing: peer and student-teacher
Indirect Instruction
- Guided teacher-directed inquiry
- Guided student-directed inquiry
- Reflective discussions
Experiential Learning
- Simulation, role play
- Case studies/scenarios
Teaching and Learning Activities/Lessons Include:
- Choice, where possible, in student tasks and assignments
- Multiple opportunities for practice and feedback.
- Use of graphic organizers (e.g. Venn diagrams, mind maps,
tables)
- Opportunities to use computer/information literacy skills
- Opportunities for students to use their learning styles
to learn and demonstrate learning
- Integration of Multiple Intelligences theory to learn
and demonstrate their learning.
- Oral and written reflection/journal writing
Assessment Methods:
Pencil and Paper:
Demonstration/Performance:
- Class
- School and community-based projects
- Skills demonstrations
- Role playing
- Simulations
Personal Communication:
- Journals
- Interviews
- Students assess their own learning and set specific goals
Other:
Strengths Summary:
This is a guide
for peer mentoring that focuses on violence in dating relationships (violence
by men against women). This guide targets teenage girls and heterosexual
relationships. It effectively focuses on the importance of interventions
in dating violence and how an increase in awareness can impact the well
being of self and others. The guide effectively defines healthy relationships
vs. violent relationships and uses critical thinking and encourages multiple
ways to solve potentially violent situations. The guide often suggests
resources and references which are beneficial for extra guidance and knowledge
to the facilitator or students. The guide is user-friendly and well organized
(easy to navigate, easy to read, materials listed, scripts for training
provided). The guide provides a variety of activities that involve participation
by all peers, and consistently gives users the opportunity to discuss their
lived personal experiences in a supportive peer environment.