Tools for Change: An Educator's Resource Site
Love Without Violence – A Kit on Dating Violence
Author(s): Gabrielle
Maillet & Eva LeBlanc
Publisher: The
Coalition Against Abuse in Relationships (CAAR)
Type of Resource: Reference
binder, list of videos to use with program, script for play, script for introduction
speeches for each topic. Program can be implemented either through small group
sessions, classes, or in a large assembly format.
Target Grades: 9-12
Canadian Resource? Yes
Ministry of Education Expectations
Subject Areas:Healthy
Active Living, Career Studies, Individual and Family Living,
English, Learning Strategies
Expectations Met:
Learning Strategies 1: Skills for Success in Secondary School, Grade 9, Open (GLS1O/GLE1O/GLE2O)
Interpersonal Knowledge and Skills - Overall Expectations
- identify and describe the knowledge and skills necessary for
successful interpersonal relations and teamwork;
- Career Studies, Grade 10, Open (GLC2O)
- Personal Management - Overall Expectations
- demonstrate effective use of interpersonal skills within a
variety of settings.
- Healthy Active Living Education, Grade 9, Open (PPL1O)
- Healthy Living - Overall Expectations
- identify the factors that contribute to positive relationships
with others;
- identify strategies to minimize potentially dangerous situations
(e.g., violence prevention, injury prevention).
Living Skills - Overall Expectations
- use appropriate decision-making skills to achieve goals related
to personal health;
- explain the effectiveness of various conflict resolution processes
in daily situations;
- use appropriate social skills when working collaboratively
with others.
Healthy Active Living Education, Grade 10, Open (PPL2O)
Healthy Living - Overall Expectations
- explain strategies to promote positive lifestyle choices and
relationships with others;
- demonstrate understanding of the factors affecting human sexuality
as it relates to themselves and others;
Living Skills - Overall Expectations
- identify ways of taking appropriate action in new situations
based on knowledge of positive decisions related to healthy active living;
- demonstrate understanding of conflict resolution, anger management,
and mediation;
- use appropriate social skills and positive attitudes when interacting
with others.
Individual and Family Living, Grade 9 or 10, Open (HIF1O/HIF2O)
Self and Others - Overall Expectations
- describe the characteristics of human growth and development
in adolescence, and explain their influence on the behaviour and needs
of young people;
- analyse strategies to develop and maintain effective relationships;
- Personal and Social Responsibilities - Overall Expectations
- demonstrate communication and conflict-resolution skills in
the context of family and social relationships;
- understand and apply a variety of problem-solving and decision-making
skills, grounded in psychological and sociological studies, to family
and social problems;
- Social Challenges - Overall Expectations
- analyse how a changing society affects individuals and families;
- Social Science Skills - Overall Expectations
- demonstrate effective collaborative group skills.
English, Grade 9, Academic (ENG1D)
Language - Overall Expectations
- use listening techniques and oral communication skills to participate
in classroom discussions and more formal activities, such as storytelling,
role playing, and reporting/presenting, for specific purposes and audiences.
English, Grade 10, Academic (ENG2D)
Language - Overall Expectations
- use listening techniques and oral communication skills to participate
in classroom discussions and more formal activities, such as dramatizing,
presenting, and debating, for a variety of purposes and audiences.
Content
Toolkit Evaluation:
(where noted: Consistently (C) Often (O))
Exploring Well-Being Through Relationships
This resource shares knowledge with students about:
- personal growth in and through relationships-C
- how healthy relationships support a healthy sense of
well-being-O
- differentiate between healthy/equal relationships and
relationships that are negative/unequal-C
- how the nature of relationships are characterized by
growth and change-O
- increase awareness of how actions and choices impact
the well being of others-C
- increase awareness of how actions/choices of others impact
personal well-being-O
This resource provides opportunities for students to acquire skills by allowing students to:
- explore relationships from personal perspectives and
experiences-O
- define values of healthy, supportive and caring relationships-O
- develop personal self-awareness and understanding of
well-being-O
- identify and practice values of mutual respect-O
- express personal feelings, thoughts, and experiences-depends
on how program is delivered
- opportunity for classmates to respond empathetically
and respectfully-depends on how program is delivered
Exploring Social Relations of Violence, Oppression and Equality
This resource shares knowledge with students about:
- social structures of inequality, marginalization/exclusion,
negative stereotypes, discrimination and violence-O
- a gender analysis of social relations-O
- Recognizing and understanding oppression on the basis
of gender-O
- multiple forms and contexts of violence-O
- the difference between “power over” and “power with”-O
- the social relations of equality, inclusion, acceptance
and empowerment-O
This resource provides opportunities for students to acquire skills by allowing students to:
- explore multiple and different forms of violence/vulnerability
-O
- explore gendered aspects of their social identities,
relationships and experiences-O
- explore personal experiences of vulnerability and privilege
by understanding social inequality/oppressions.-O
- personalize knowledge of social relations of oppression
and empowerment-O
- engage in gaining a sense of social responsibility for
addressing social oppressions/exclusions and for participating
in achieving positive social change-O
Exploring Identity, Gender, and Diversity
This resource shares knowledge with students about:
- social identities, relationships, and experiences within
the context of multiple social relationships and structure of inequality
(male /female situations)-C
- how values and biases are (can be) used to exclude and
cause harm to individuals and groups of individuals (related to
female/ male situations)-C
- building an understanding of “differences” on
the basis of gender, in ways that enable students to move away
from thinking in terms of “better
than/worse than”-C
This resource provides opportunities for students to acquire skills by allowing students:
- develop an understanding and respect for the identities,
experiences, and values of their classmates/peers (of the opposite
sex)-O
- Developing Connections, Creative Thinking and Participation
This resource shares knowledge with students about:
- strategies for personal and/or social change for the
promotion of healthy and equal relationships.-O
- conflict resolution and anti-violence strategies-O
- choices and actions that promote mutual empowerment and
respect-O
- where and how to seek out help and support-O
This resource provides opportunities for students to acquire skills by allowing students to:
Pedagogical Evaluation:
Structure and Format:
- Strategies to integrate lessons/activities into the educational
curriculum
- Information guide or scope and sequence of lessons (i.e. how
to strategies)
- Ready to use scripted format
- Sequential guide or lessons that are user friendly
- Availability of support to implement the program/resource
Teaching/Learning Strategies:
Direct Instruction: whole class and small group
- Explicit Teaching
- Demonstration
- Explicit teaching and use of thinking skills and strategies
- Explicit teaching and using self-assessment and reflection
Interactive Learning
- Small-group cooperative learning
- Presentations
- brainstorming
Indirect Instruction
- Guided teacher-directed inquiry
- Guided student-directed inquiry
- Reflective discussions
Experiential Learning
- Simulation, role play
- Case studies/scenarios
- Community-based learning opportunities
Activities/Lessons Include:
- Choice, where possible, in student tasks and assignments
- Multiple opportunities for practice and feedback.
Assessment Methods:
Pencil and Paper:
Demonstration/Performance:
- Class
- School and community-based projects
- Role playing
Other:
- Parent involvement - information session
- Parent involvement – letters home to explain program/units
- Parent involvement – strategies to transfer learning
at home
- Staff training
- School-wide connections
Possibility of any or all of the
above, dependent upon the delivery strategy chosen (small group,
classroom, or large auditorium)
Strengths Summary:
This resource offers
information about dating violence, date rape, the cycle of violence, and
gives an outline of what healthy male/female relationships are like. It
also offers some statistics about the incidence of different types of violence,
but the statistics are dated 1997. The resource provides scripted introductory
speeches about each topic, with the option to write your own introductions
(suggestions are given). The program provides a list of videos to be used
in conjunction with the speeches. A scripted play is also included about
dating violence, and requires four female, and four male participants.
Handouts are included with information about violence, date rape, and healthy
relationships. The kit also includes student evaluation forms so they can
provide feedback to facilitators about their experience with the program.
Information is also given about varied ways in which the program could
be delivered (i.e., within school system, by community service programs,
by non-profit organizations, members of the justice system, church groups,
and more).