Tools for Change: An Educator's Resource Site
Preventing Violence in Dating Relationships
Author(s): Women’s
Habitat of Etobicoke & Education Wife Assault
Publisher: Women’s
Habitat of Etobicoke & Education Wife Assault
Type of Resource: Information
booklet and Classroom Activities
Target Grades: 8
- 10
Canadian Resource? Yes
Resource formally evaluated? No
What is the source, internet link, or article title for viewing the formal
evaluation of this resource? (none supplied)
Ministry of Education Expectations
Subject Areas:Language,
The Arts, Health and Physical Education, Religion, Family Life,
Healthy Active Living, Career Studies, Individual and Family
Living, English, Learning Strategies
Expectations Met:
GRADE EIGHT
Language: Reading
Clarify and broaden their own points of view by examining the ideas of others
Language: Oral and Visual Communication
Express and respond to a range of ideas and opinions concisely, clearly, and appropriately
Contribute and work constructively in groups
Use tone of voice and body language to clarify meaning during conversations and presentations
Contribute collaboratively in group situations by asking questions and building on the ideas of others
Work with members of their group to establish clear purposes and procedures for solving problems and completing projects
The Arts: Drama and Dance
Critique, orally and in writing, their own and others’ work in drama and dance, using criteria developed independently and in a group
Demonstrate understanding of the appropriate use of the voice, gestures, and the level of language in different dramatic situations
Organize and carry out a group improvisation
Produce pieces that deal appropriately with youth problems
Produce pieces of writing in which they reflect on their experiences in drama and dance, and in which they show their ability to analyse and find solutions to problems in real life
Health and Physical Education: Healthy Living
Identify the physical, emotional, interpersonal, and spiritual aspects of healthy sexuality (e.g., respect for life, ethical questions in relationships, contraception)
Identify local support groups and community organizations (e.g., public health offices) that provide information or services related to health and well-being
Analyse situations that are potentially dangerous to personal safety (e.g., gang violence) and determine how to seek assistance
Apply living skills (e.g., decision-making, problem-solving, and refusal skills) to respond to matters related to sexuality, drug use, and healthy eating habits
Identify sources of support (e.g., parents/guardians, doctors) related to healthy sexuality issues
Analyse situations (e.g., hitchhiking, gang violence, violence in relationships) that are potentially dangerous to personal safety
Identify support services (e.g., the school guidance department, shelters, Kid’s Help Phone) that assist victims of violence, and explain how to access them
Apply the steps of decision-making process to address age-specific situations related to personal health and well-being in which substance use or abuse is one of the factors
Health and Physical Education: Active Participation
Demonstrate respectful behaviour towards the feelings and ideas of others
Catholic Education Religion and Family Life
Religion:
- responsible choices, self respect and respect for others
Family Life:
- importance of adolescent relationships, conflict resolution
- meaning of commitment during adolescence, stress management,
- building a loving, just community
Learning Strategies 1: Skills for Success in Secondary School, Grade 9, Open (GLS1O/GLE1O/GLE2O)
Interpersonal Knowledge and Skills - Overall Expectations
- • identify and describe the knowledge and skills necessary for successful
interpersonal relations and teamwork;
- • assess their interpersonal and teamwork skills and strategies,
and explain how those skills requiring further development affect their learning;
Career Studies, Grade 10, Open (GLC2O)
Personal Management - Overall Expectations
- • demonstrate effective use of interpersonal skills within a variety
of settings.
Healthy Active Living Education, Grade 9, Open (PPL1O)
Healthy Living - Overall Expectations
- • identify the factors that contribute to positive relationships
with others;
- • explain the consequences of sexual decisions on the individual,
family, and community;
- • identify strategies to minimize potentially dangerous situations
(e.g., violence prevention, injury prevention).
Living Skills - Overall Expectations
- • use appropriate decision-making skills to achieve goals related
to personal health;
- • explain the effectiveness of various conflict resolution processes
in daily situations;
- • use appropriate social skills when working collaboratively with
others.
Healthy Active Living Education, Grade 10, Open (PPL2O)
Healthy Living - Overall Expectations
- • explain strategies to promote positive lifestyle choices and relationships
with others;
- • demonstrate understanding of the factors affecting human sexuality
as it relates to themselves and others;
Living Skills - Overall Expectations
- • identify ways of taking appropriate action in new situations based
on knowledge of positive decisions related to healthy active living;
- • demonstrate understanding of conflict resolution, anger management,
and mediation;
- • use appropriate social skills and positive attitudes when interacting
with others.
Individual and Family Living, Grade 9 or 10, Open (HIF1O/HIF2O)
Self and Others - Overall Expectations
- • describe the characteristics of human growth and development in
adolescence, and explain their influence on the behaviour and needs of young
people;
- • analyse strategies to develop and maintain effective relationships;
- Personal and Social Responsibilities - Overall Expectations
- • demonstrate communication and conflict-resolution skills in the
context of family and social relationships;
- • understand and apply a variety of problem-solving and decision-making
skills, grounded in psychological and sociological studies, to family and
social problems;
- • demonstrate practical skills that contribute to the proper functioning
of families and that are transferable to the workplace and to the community.
Social Science Skills - Overall Expectations
- • demonstrate effective collaborative group skills.
English, Grade 9, Academic (ENG1D)
Language - Overall Expectations
- • use listening techniques and oral communication skills to participate
in classroom discussions and more formal activities, such as storytelling,
role playing, and reporting/presenting, for specific purposes and audiences.
English, Grade 10, Academic (ENG2D)
Language - Overall Expectations
- • use listening techniques and oral communication skills to participate
in classroom discussions and more formal activities, such as dramatizing,
presenting, and debating, for a variety of purposes and audiences.
Toolkit Evaluation:
(where noted: Consistently (C) Often (O))
Exploring Well-Being Through Relationships
This resource shares knowledge with students about:
- personal growth in and through relationships
- how healthy relationships support a healthy sense of
well-being
- differentiate between healthy/equal relationships and
relationships that are negative/unequal
- how the nature of relationships are characterized by
growth and change
- increase awareness of how actions and choices impact
the well being of others
- increase awareness of how actions/choices of others impact
personal well-being
This resource provides opportunities for students to acquire skills by allowing students to:
- explore relationships from personal perspectives and
experiences
- define values of healthy, supportive and caring relationships
- develop personal self-awareness and understanding of
well-being
- develop and practice mutual empathy
- identify and practice values of mutual respect
- express personal feelings, thoughts, and experiences
- opportunity for classmates to respond empathetically
and respectfully
Exploring Social Relations of Violence, Oppression and Equality
This resource shares knowledge with students about:
- social structures of inequality, marginalization/exclusion,
negative stereotypes, discrimination and violence
- a gender analysis of social relations
- recognizing and understanding oppression on the basis
of gender
- the social relations of equality, inclusion, acceptance
and empowerment
This resource provides opportunities for students to acquire skills by allowing students to:
- explore gendered aspects of their social identities,
relationships and experiences
- personalize knowledge of social relations of oppression
and empowerment
Exploring Identity, Gender, and Diversity
This resource shares knowledge with students about:
- how values and biases are (can be) used to exclude and
cause harm to individuals and groups of individuals
This resource provides opportunities for students to acquire skills by allowing students to:
- identify, explore, and name their own identities, experiences,
and values
- develop an understanding and respect for the identities,
experiences, and values of their peers
Developing Connections, Creative Thinking and Participation
This resource shares knowledge with students about:
- understanding violence and healthy relationships from one’s
own personal perspective
- strategies for personal and/or social change for the
promotion of healthy and equal relationships.
- conflict resolution and anti-violence strategies
- choices and actions that promote mutual empowerment and
respect
- where and how to seek out help and support
This resource provides opportunities for students to acquire skills by allowing students to:
- Develop and practice their capacity for healthy interactions
and connections within the context of the classroom/school
- Work collaboratively with peers to discuss and develop
strategies for healthy and equal relationships
- Experience and practice how to resolve conflict positively
- Develop supportive connections between students and teachers/adults
Pedagogical Evaluation:
Structure and Format:
- • Information guide or scope and sequence of lessons (i.e. how
to strategies)
Teaching/Learning Strategies:
Direct Instruction: whole class and small group
- Explicit Teaching
- Explicit teaching and use of thinking skills and strategies
- Explicit teaching and using self-assessment and reflection
Interactive Learning
- Small-group cooperative learning
- Small group discussion/debriefing
- Presentations
- brainstorming
- Conferencing: peer and student-teacher
Indirect Instruction
- Guided teacher-directed inquiry
- Reflective discussions
Experiential Learning
- Simulation, role play
- Case studies/scenarios
Activities/Lessons Include:
- Choice, where possible, in student tasks and assignments
- Multiple opportunities for practice and feedback.
- Opportunities for students to use their learning styles
to learn and demonstrate learning
- Oral and written reflection
Assessment Methods:
Pencil and Paper:
Demonstration/Performance:
- Class
- Role playing
- Simulations
Personal Communication:
- Student-teacher conferences
- Interviews
Other:
Strengths Summary:
This resource is an information and facilitation booklet for educators. It provides educators with relevant information, statistics and legal issues pertaining to sexual assault, date rape and violence against women. The resource also includes a collection of classroom activities that enable students to recognize gender stereotypes, define the values of healthy and supportive relationships, understand what constitutes violence and assault, build self-esteem, resolve conflicts in a positive manner, and help friends who are or have been abused. The resource offers extensive opportunities for group discussion and co-operative learning in mixed-sex groups.