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The Teen Relationship Workbook
Author(s): Kerry Moles
Publisher: Wellness Reproductions Inc
Type of Resource: Classroom activities and lesson plans
Target Grades: Ages 13-18, Grades 8-12
Canadian Resource? No
Resource formally evaluated? No (research based)
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Ministry of Education Expectations
Subject Areas:Language, The Arts, Health and Physical Education, Career Studies, Individual and Family Living, English, Learning Strategies
Expectations Met:
GRADE EIGHT
Language: Reading
Clarify and broaden their own points of view by examining the ideas of others
Language: Oral and Visual Communication
Express and respond to a range of ideas and opinions concisely, clearly, and appropriately
Contribute and work constructively in groups
Use tone of voice and body language to clarify meaning during conversations and presentations
Contribute collaboratively in group situations by asking questions and building on the ideas of others
Work with members of their group to establish clear purposes and procedures for solving problems and completing projects
The Arts: Drama and Dance
Interpret and communicate ideas and feelings drawn from fictional accounts, documentaries, and other material from a wide variety of sources and cultures, selecting and combining complex drama and dance techniques (e.g., “forum theatre”)
Critique, orally and in writing, their own and others’ work in drama and dance, using criteria developed independently and in a group
Demonstrate understanding of the appropriate use of the voice, gestures, and the level of language in different dramatic situations
Organize and carry out a group improvisation
Produce pieces that deal appropriately with youth problems
Produce pieces of writing in which they reflect on their experiences in drama and dance, and in which they show their ability to analyse and find solutions to problems in real life
Health and Physical Education: Healthy Living
Identify the physical, emotional, interpersonal, and spiritual aspects of healthy sexuality (e.g., respect for life, ethical questions in relationships, contraception)
Identify local support groups and community organizations (e.g., public health offices) that provide information or services related to health and well-being
Analyse situations that are potentially dangerous to personal safety (e.g., gang violence) and determine how to seek assistance
Apply living skills (e.g., decision-making, problem-solving, and refusal skills) to respond to matters related to sexuality, drug use, and healthy eating habits
Identify sources of support (e.g., parents/guardians, doctors) related to healthy sexuality issues
Analyse situations (e.g., hitchhiking, gang violence, violence in relationships) that are potentially dangerous to personal safety
Identify support services (e.g., the school guidance department, shelters, Kid’s Help Phone) that assist victims of violence, and explain how to access them
Describe causes and symptoms of stress and positive ways (as opposed to substance use) to relieve stress
Apply the steps of decision-making process to address age-specific situations related to personal health and well-being in which substance use or abuse is one of the factors
Health and Physical Education: Active Participation
Demonstrate respectful behaviour towards the feelings and ideas of others
Catholic Education Religion and Family Life
Religion:
-
responsible choices, self respect and respect for others
Family Life:
- importance of adolescent relationships, conflict resolution
- meaning of commitment during adolescence, stress management,
- building a loving, just community
Learning Strategies 1: Skills for Success in Secondary School, Grade 9, Open (GLS1O/GLE1O/GLE2O)
Interpersonal Knowledge and Skills - Overall Expectations
- identify and describe the knowledge and skills necessary for successful interpersonal relations and teamwork;
- assess their interpersonal and teamwork skills and strategies, and explain how those skills requiring further development affect their learning;
Career Studies, Grade 10, Open (GLC2O)
Personal Management - Overall Expectations
- demonstrate effective use of interpersonal skills within a variety of settings.
Preparation for Transitions and Change - Overall Expectations
- use appropriate decision-making and planning processes to set goals and develop a career plan;
- analyse changes taking place in their personal lives, their community, and the economy, and identify strategies to facilitate smooth transitions during change;
Healthy Active Living Education, Grade 9, Open (PPL1O)
Healthy Living - Overall Expectations
- identify the factors that contribute to positive relationships with others;
- explain the consequences of sexual decisions on the individual, family, and community;
- demonstrate personal strategies to deal effectively with the social influences that contribute to the use and abuse of alcohol, tobacco, and other drugs (e.g., cannabis);
- identify strategies to minimize potentially dangerous situations (e.g., violence prevention, injury prevention).
Living Skills - Overall Expectations
- use appropriate decision-making skills to achieve goals related to personal health;
- explain the effectiveness of various conflict resolution processes in daily situations;
- use appropriate social skills when working collaboratively with others.
Healthy Active Living Education, Grade 10, Open (PPL2O)
Healthy Living - Overall Expectations
- explain strategies to promote positive lifestyle choices and relationships with others;
- demonstrate understanding of the factors affecting human sexuality as it relates to themselves and others;
Living Skills - Overall Expectations
- identify ways of taking appropriate action in new situations based on knowledge of positive decisions related to healthy active living;
- demonstrate understanding of conflict resolution, anger management, and mediation;
- use appropriate social skills and positive attitudes when interacting with others.
Individual and Family Living, Grade 9 or 10, Open (HIF1O/HIF2O)
Self and Others - Overall Expectations
- describe the characteristics of human growth and development in adolescence, and explain their influence on the behaviour and needs of young people;
- analyse strategies to develop and maintain effective relationships;
- Personal and Social Responsibilities - Overall Expectations
- demonstrate communication and conflict-resolution skills in the context of family and social relationships;
- understand and apply a variety of problem-solving and decision-making skills, grounded in psychological and sociological studies, to family and social problems;
- demonstrate practical skills that contribute to the proper functioning of families and that are transferable to the workplace and to the community.
Social Challenges - Overall Expectations
- analyse how a changing society affects individuals and families;
Social Science Skills - Overall Expectations
- demonstrate effective collaborative group skills.
English, Grade 9, Academic (ENG1D)
Language - Overall Expectations
- use listening techniques and oral communication skills to participate in classroom discussions and more formal activities, such as storytelling, role playing, and reporting/presenting, for specific purposes and audiences.
English, Grade 10, Academic (ENG2D)
Language - Overall Expectations
- use listening techniques and oral communication skills to participate in classroom discussions and more formal activities, such as dramatizing, presenting, and debating, for a variety of purposes and audiences.
Toolkit Evaluation:
(where noted: Consistently (C) Often (O))
Exploring Well-Being Through Relationships
Knowledge
- Personal growth in and through relationships
- How healthy relationships support a healthy sense of well-being
- Differentiate between healthy/equal relationships and relationships that are negative/unequal
- How the nature of relationships are characterized by growth and change
- Increase awareness of how actions and choices impact the well being of others
- Increase awareness of how actions/choices of others impact personal well-being
Skills
- Explore relationships from personal perspectives and experiences
- Define values of healthy, supportive and caring relationships
- Develop personal self-awareness and understanding of well-being
- Develop and practice mutual empathy
- Identify and practice values of mutual respect
- Express personal feelings, thoughts, and experiences
- Opportunity for classmates to respond empathetically and respectfully
Exploring Social Relations of Violence, Oppression and Equality
Knowledge
- Knowledge about social structures of inequality, marginalization/exclusion, negative stereotypes, discrimination and violence
- Develop a gender analysis of social relations
- Develop understanding of multiple forms and contexts of violence
- Recognize and make connections of varied forms of violence in different contexts (i.e., home, school, community, media etc.)
- Critical understanding of the concept of power by exploring relations of violence and relations of empowerment
- Develop understanding of the difference between “power over” and “power with”
- Knowledge about the social relations of equality, inclusion, acceptance and empowerment
Skills
- Explore multiple and different forms of violence/vulnerability and experiences of exclusion in their lives
- Explore gendered aspects of their social identities, relationships and experiences
- Explore personal experiences of vulnerability and privilege by understanding social inequality/oppressions.
- Opportunity to personalize knowledge of social relations of oppression and empowerment
Exploring Identity, Gender, and Diversity
Knowledge
- Knowledge to examine social identities relationships and experiences within the context of multiple social relationships and structure of inequality (vulnerability vs. privilege)
- Knowledge about how values and biases are (can be) used to exclude and cause harm to individuals and groups of individuals
- Knowledge to build an understanding of “differences” on the basis of gender, race socioeconomic status, ability/disability, sexual orientation, language, culture, education, et. In ways that enable students to move away from thinking in terms of “better than/worse than”
Skills
- Opportunity for students to identify, explore, and name their own identities, experiences, and values
- Opportunity for students to develop an understanding and respect for the identities, experiences, and values of their classmates/peers
- Opportunity to explore differences on the basis of gender, race, ability/disability, socioeconomic status, culture, religion, sexual orientation with respect and interest
- Opportunity for students to engage with and learn form differences and diversity
- Opportunity for students to express, learn from, and build multiple perspectives on social experiences and diversity
Developing Connections, Creative Thinking and Participation
Knowledge
- Validation of students’ perspective and knowledge in understanding violence and healthy relationships
- Strategies for personal and/or social change are offered to students for the promotion of healthy and equal relationships.
- Engagement in learning conflict resolution and anti-violence strategies
- Gain in knowledge about choices and actions that promote mutual empowerment and respect
- Knowledge is shared with students about where and how to seek out help and support
Skills
- Opportunities to develop and practice their capacity for healthy interactions and connections within the context of the classroom/school
- Opportunities to work collaboratively with peers to discuss and develop strategies for healthy and equal relationships
- Experience and practice how to resolve conflict positively
- Opportunity for the development of supportive connections between students and teachers/adults
Pedagogical Evaluation:
Structure and Format:
- Research-based introduction
- Strategies to integrate lessons/activities into the educational curriculum
- Information guide or scope and sequence of lessons (i.e. how to strategies)
- Sequential guide or lessons that are user friendly
- Availability of support to implement the program/resource
- Accommodations for exceptional students indirectly identified
Teaching/Learning Strategies:
Direct Instruction: whole class and small group
- Explicit Teaching
- Demonstration
- Explicit teaching and use of thinking skills and strategies
- Explicit teaching and using self-assessment and reflection
Interactive Learning
- Small-group cooperative learning
- brainstorming
Indirect Instruction
- Guided teacher-directed inquiry
- Guided student-directed inquiry
- Reflective discussions
Experiential Learning
Teaching and Learning Activities/Lessons Include:
- Multiple opportunities for practice and feedback.
- Use of graphic organizers (e.g. Venn diagrams, mind maps, tables)
- Opportunities for students to use their learning styles to learn and demonstrate learning
- Integration of Multiple Intelligences theory to learn and demonstrate their learning.
- Portfolio development
- Oral and written reflection/journal writing
Assessment Methods:
Pencil and Paper:
Demonstration/Performance:
- Class
- Role playing
- Simulations
Personal Communication:
Other:
- Parent involvement – strategies to transfer learning at home
Strengths Summary:
This resource is intended for use by professionals (teachers, community agency workers, social workers) helping teens to develop healthy romantic relationships and prevent domestic violence. The workbook encourages students to think critically about the influence of social forces and to develop their own system of relationship values. The Teen Relationships Workbook would be ideal for use at the grade 8 -12 level or with teens ages 13-18. It primarily targets intimate or romantic relationships, and is not designed for specifically examining friendships or family relationships, except in the context of roles they play in romantic relationships.
This workbook is a collection of 50+ activities and reproducible worksheets about evaluating relationships, understanding abuse, social influences on relationships, building healthy relationships, and making good decisions. The worksheets and suggested activities: 1) help students learn to recognize differences between healthy and unhealthy relationships, 2) encourage students to develop plans when dealing with abusive relationships, breaking up, and having a baby, 3) encourage students to critically evaluate their decisions and relationships, 4) focus on discovering strengths in the relationship as well as working with weaknesses, 5) encourage students to be independent, and strong when in a relationship, 6) describe aggressive, assertive, and passive aggressive conflict styles, and much more.
All activities are interactive and/or personal and they encourage reflective and critical thinking on the part of the student.