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The Youth Relationships Manual
Author(s): Wolfe, D.A., Wekerle, C., Gough, R., Reitzel-Jaff, D., Grasley, C., Pittman, A., Lefebre, L., Stumpf, J.
Publisher: Sage Publications
Type of Resource: A manual with program sessions and exercises
Target Grades: 8-11
Canadian Resource? American and Canadian
Ministry of Education Expectations
Subject Areas:Language, The Arts, Health and Physical Education, Career Studies, Individual and Family Living, English, Learning Strategies
Expectations Met:
GRADE EIGHT
Language: Reading
Clarify and broaden their own points of view by examining the ideas of others
Language: Oral and Visual Communication
Express and respond to a range of ideas and opinions concisely, clearly, and appropriately
Contribute and work constructively in groups
Use tone of voice and body language to clarify meaning during conversations and presentations
Contribute collaboratively in group situations by asking questions and building on the ideas of others
Work with members of their group to establish clear purposes and procedures for solving problems and completing projects
The Arts: Drama and Dance
Interpret and communicate ideas and feelings drawn from fictional accounts, documentaries, and other material from a wide variety of sources and cultures, selecting and combining complex drama and dance techniques (e.g., “forum theatre”)
Critique, orally and in writing, their own and others’ work in drama and dance, using criteria developed independently and in a group
Demonstrate understanding of the appropriate use of the voice, gestures, and the level of language in different dramatic situations
Organize and carry out a group improvisation
Produce pieces that deal appropriately with youth problems
Produce pieces of writing in which they reflect on their experiences in drama and dance, and in which they show their ability to analyse and find solutions to problems in real life
Health and Physical Education: Healthy Living
Identify the physical, emotional, interpersonal, and spiritual aspects of healthy sexuality (e.g., respect for life, ethical questions in relationships, contraception)
Identify local support groups and community organizations (e.g., public health offices) that provide information or services related to health and well-being
Analyse situations that are potentially dangerous to personal safety (e.g., gang violence) and determine how to seek assistance
Apply living skills (e.g., decision-making, problem-solving, and refusal skills) to respond to matters related to sexuality, drug use, and healthy eating habits
Identify sources of support (e.g., parents/guardians, doctors) related to healthy sexuality issues
Analyse situations (e.g., hitchhiking, gang violence, violence in relationships) that are potentially dangerous to personal safety
Identify support services (e.g., the school guidance department, shelters, Kid’s Help Phone) that assist victims of violence, and explain how to access them
Describe causes and symptoms of stress and positive ways (as opposed to substance use) to relieve stress
Apply the steps of decision-making process to address age-specific situations related to personal health and well-being in which substance use or abuse is one of the factors
Health and Physical Education: Active Participation
Demonstrate respectful behaviour towards the feelings and ideas of others
Catholic Education Religion and Family Life
Religion:
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responsible choices, self respect and respect for others
Family Life:
- importance of adolescent relationships, conflict resolution
- meaning of commitment during adolescence, stress management,
- building a loving, just community
Learning Strategies 1: Skills for Success in Secondary School, Grade 9, Open (GLS1O/GLE1O/GLE2O)
Interpersonal Knowledge and Skills - Overall Expectations
- identify and describe the knowledge and skills necessary for successful interpersonal relations and teamwork;
- assess their interpersonal and teamwork skills and strategies, and explain how those skills requiring further development affect their learning;
Career Studies, Grade 10, Open (GLC2O)
Personal Management - Overall Expectations
- demonstrate effective use of interpersonal skills within a variety of settings.
Preparation for Transitions and Change - Overall Expectations
- use appropriate decision-making and planning processes to set goals and develop a career plan;
- analyse changes taking place in their personal lives, their community, and the economy, and identify strategies to facilitate smooth transitions during change;
Healthy Active Living Education, Grade 9, Open (PPL1O)
Healthy Living - Overall Expectations
- identify the factors that contribute to positive relationships with others;
- explain the consequences of sexual decisions on the individual, family, and community;
- demonstrate personal strategies to deal effectively with the social influences that contribute to the use and abuse of alcohol, tobacco, and other drugs (e.g., cannabis);
- identify strategies to minimize potentially dangerous situations (e.g., violence prevention, injury prevention).
Living Skills - Overall Expectations
- use appropriate decision-making skills to achieve goals related to personal health;
- explain the effectiveness of various conflict resolution processes in daily situations;
- use appropriate social skills when working collaboratively with others.
Healthy Active Living Education, Grade 10, Open (PPL2O)
Healthy Living - Overall Expectations
- explain strategies to promote positive lifestyle choices and relationships with others;
- demonstrate understanding of the factors affecting human sexuality as it relates to themselves and others;
Living Skills - Overall Expectations
- identify ways of taking appropriate action in new situations based on knowledge of positive decisions related to healthy active living;
- demonstrate understanding of conflict resolution, anger management, and mediation;
- use appropriate social skills and positive attitudes when interacting with others.
Individual and Family Living, Grade 9 or 10, Open (HIF1O/HIF2O)
Self and Others - Overall Expectations
- describe the characteristics of human growth and development in adolescence, and explain their influence on the behaviour and needs of young people;
- analyse strategies to develop and maintain effective relationships;
Personal and Social Responsibilities - Overall Expectations
- demonstrate communication and conflict-resolution skills in the context of family and social relationships;
- understand and apply a variety of problem-solving and decision-making skills, grounded in psychological and sociological studies, to family and social problems;
- demonstrate practical skills that contribute to the proper functioning of families and that are transferable to the workplace and to the community.
Social Challenges - Overall Expectations
- analyse how a changing society affects individuals and families;
Social Science Skills - Overall Expectations
- demonstrate effective collaborative group skills.
English, Grade 9, Academic (ENG1D)
Language - Overall Expectations
- use listening techniques and oral communication skills to participate in classroom discussions and more formal activities, such as storytelling, role playing, and reporting/presenting, for specific purposes and audiences.
English, Grade 10, Academic (ENG2D)
Language - Overall Expectations
- use listening techniques and oral communication skills to participate in classroom discussions and more formal activities, such as dramatizing, presenting, and debating, for a variety of purposes and audiences.
Toolkit Evaluation:
(where noted: Consistently (C) Often (O))
Exploring Well-Being Through Relationships
Knowledge
- Personal growth in and through relationships
- How healthy relationships support a healthy sense of well-being
- Differentiate between healthy/equal relationships and relationships that are negative/unequal
- How the nature of relationships are characterized by growth and change
- Increase awareness of how actions and choices impact the well being of others
- Increase awareness of how actions/choices of others impact personal well-being
Skills
- Explore relationships from personal perspectives and experiences
- Define values of healthy, supportive and caring relationships
- Develop personal self-awareness and understanding of well-being
- Develop and practice mutual empathy
- Identify and practice values of mutual respect
- Express personal feelings, thoughts, and experiences
- Opportunity for classmates to respond empathetically and respectfully
Exploring Social Relations of Violence, Oppression and Equality
Knowledge
- Develop a gender analysis of social relations
- Develop understanding of multiple forms and contexts of violence
- Critical understanding of the concept of power by exploring relations of violence and relations of empowerment
- Develop understanding of the difference between “power over” and “power with”
- Knowledge about the social relations of equality, inclusion, acceptance and empowerment
Skills
- Explore gendered aspects of their social identities, relationships and experiences
- Opportunity to personalize knowledge of social relations of oppression and empowerment
- Engage in gaining a sense of social responsibility for addressing social oppressions/exclusions and for participating in achieving positive social change
Exploring Identity, Gender, and Diversity
Skills
- Opportunity for students to identify, explore, and name their own identities, experiences, and values
- Opportunity for students to develop an understanding and respect for the identities, experiences, and values of their classmates/peers
Developing Connections, Creative Thinking and Participation
Knowledge
- Validation of students’ perspective and knowledge in understanding violence and healthy relationships
- Strategies for personal and/or social change are offered to students for the promotion of healthy and equal relationships.
- Engagement in learning conflict resolution and anti-violence strategies
- Gain in knowledge about choices and actions that promote mutual empowerment and respect
- Knowledge is shared with students about where and how to seek out help and support
Skills
- Opportunities to develop and practice their capacity for healthy interactions and connections within the context of the classroom/school
- Opportunities to work collaboratively with peers to discuss and develop strategies for healthy and equal relationships
- Experience and practice how to resolve conflict positively
Pedagogical Evaluation:
Structure and Format:
- Research-based introduction
- Evaluation of the resource (e.g., formal research on the effectiveness of the program
- Strategies to integrate lessons/activities into the educational curriculum
- Information guide or scope and sequence of lessons (i.e. how to strategies)
- Ready to use scripted format
- Sequential guide or lessons that are user friendly
- Availability of support to implement the program/resource
- Accommodations for exceptional students indirectly identified
Teaching/Learning Strategies:
Direct Instruction: whole class and small group
- Explicit teaching and use of thinking skills and strategies
- Explicit teaching and using self-assessment and reflection
Interactive Learning
- Small-group cooperative learning
- Small group discussion/debriefing
- brainstorming
Indirect Instruction
- Guided student-directed inquiry
- Reflective discussions
Experiential Learning
- Simulation, role play
- Case studies/scenarios
- Community-based learning opportunities
Teaching and Learning Activities/Lessons Include:
- Choice, where possible, in student tasks and assignments
- Multiple opportunities for practice and feedback.
- Use of graphic organizers (e.g. Venn diagrams, mind maps, tables)
- Opportunities for students to use their learning styles to learn and demonstrate learning
- Integration of Multiple Intelligences theory to learn and demonstrate their learning.
- Oral and written reflection/journal writing
Assessment Methods:
Pencil and Paper:
Demonstration/Performance:
- School and community-based projects
- Skills demonstrations
- Role playing
- Organizing events
- Simulations
Personal Communication:
- Students assess their own learning and set specific goals
Other:
Strengths Summary:
The Youth Relationships Manual is meant to help teens who are at risk of experiencing or perpetuating abuse in dating relationships. This resource focuses on building healthy, non-violent, relationships within heterosexual young teen couples, addressing topics such as date rape, sexism and violence against women. Designed to build on strengths and foster resilience and coping skills, this manual presents proactive, competency-building approaches to promoting nonviolent relationships and preventing cycles of violence. Based on the premise that the best window of opportunity for developing healthy relationships is in adolescence, the model guides teens to positive roles in dating, peer interactions, and interpersonal style. This manual details a carefully developed and tested (field-tested with the Youth Relationships Project) curriculum for an 18-session group training program that includes three principal sections: informational, skills building, and social action learning opportunities. The strengths of this resource lie within exploring well-being through relationships, and developing connections through creative thinking and participation. Key skills addressed are empathy, mutual respect and developing supportive and caring relationships. Also, as part of the program, teens learn new communication and conflict resolution skills and practice those skills by going out into the community to solve a hypothetical problem situation. Innovative and easy to follow, The Youth Relationships Manual provides mental health professionals, school counsellors and administrators, community agency workers and administrators, and students in the helping professions with a vital tool for helping teens at risk develop healthy relationships.